In this post I will share an example of just that from the short story Mrs. West's Experience written by Alice B. Neal and published in Godey's Lady's Book Volumes 46-47 (1853) pages 430-436.
The story begins with two well-to-do young women, Mary Powell and Virginia, languishing in boredom and begging a story from Virginia's cousin Mrs. Augusta West. After some teasing, Mrs. West begins her tale. She was just 17 when the story takes place, and vacationing at a friend's home in New York City, when they, also struck by boredom (and quite unsupervised,) decided to have some fun.
After hearing a story of similar shenanigans, the girls decided it would be quite funny if Augusta dressed as a servant and applied at a place of service. She borrows a chambermaid's "calico dress" but does not know how exactly to accessorize it. Her "nicely stitched," "fine linen collars and a pair of cuffs" feel too "genteel" so instead she wears a "silk cravat", a "split straw bonnet," "cotton gloves," her "thickest cotton hose" and "some buskins."
She goes on to interview for several positions, and even works for a week in one home, before an accusation of theft brings the charade to an end, (although not before she meets her future husband.)
So back to our point: what does one wear with a cotton, calico dress?
A silk cravat
A straw bonnet
Cotton gloves
Cotton stockings
Front lacing boots (buskins)
But not fine linen, embroidered collars or cuffs
Images of accessorized working class ladies (not necessarily in cotton dresses)
![]() |
The woman on the right is wearing a cravat CDV of British servants c. 1860 via Threaded Through Time |
![]() |
Woman on the right is wearing a cravat Maids of All Work by John Finnie (1865) |
![]() |
A straw bonnet is on the table next to the hat A Sewing Lesson by the Fireside by George Smith (1867) |
![]() |
Woman wearing front lacing boots and white stockings Engraving/CDV from unknown source, via eBay |